G-R-A-D-U-A-T-I-O-N!

Yep, that's right!  Scott graduated Mortuary Science school...with honors!  I think his overall GPA was like a 3.99 if not a 4.00.  His lowest grade this last semester was a 96%.  He crammed 2 years into 1 1/2 years.  He has been working so hard to pick us up out of the dust and hopefully his hard works starts to pay off.  

Bunker hasn't given him a proposal of what he will be doing for them now that he is an "intern" (he has to get his intern license, hopefully soon...it costs $400! and then intern for a year as an embalmer and then another year as a funeral director and then he can get his license as a Funeral Director).  They haven't discussed pay, either, and just found out that the guy to do that will be gone all this week...so, I guess we'll find out soon enough.  I am kind of worried because we haven't heard anything really promising from those who have already been doing this with Bunker for a couple years.  Scott loves working for Bunker and really loves the people and the opportunity it's been to work for them.  He has learned so much this last year that he wouldn't have gotten to had he not been working for them.  I guess we'll just have to see, and most importantly, we trust the Lord.  He has blessed us this far, and we know He will continue to do so.

Calvin and Alec got it stuck in their heads that they wanted to shave Shep (our Australian Shepherd dog).  This is no small chore.  So, Aunt Heidi had some dog clippers that she let them borrow...come to find out after the dog was done being shaved, they used Scott's hair clippers instead ("they worked better").  Scott went to clip his hair this morning and found a nice surprise.  At least they put them back, right?!?  The funny thing is that we thought Shep was fat, but it turns out, it was all hair!  He looks like he did when he was a puppy!  I tried to get some pictures to show...

Shep as a puppy (6 months old)

Shep (and Angel) at Christmas 2011.  Look at the coat!

Alec and Calvin displaying their work of art.  No more mane :(

This isn't the best picture, but you can tell all the hair is gone!

He looks like a puppy again.  It's pretty funny.  We'll see if it helps during the summer.  He actually liked being shaved, just not around his face, so the boys used the scissors for that.  They did a pretty good job.  It's still a little weird.

This is the last full week of school for the boys.  It's been a long hard year with all the adjusting they have had to do.  I'm proud of them.  I know it's been hard.  Derrek graduates next week (I am sending out announcements...just have to get stamps!).  He has worked really hard too, and will graduate as a member of the National Honors Society, too (just not in Mortuary Science!).  

Today is Mother's Day.  Scott always works so hard to make it a great day for me.  He made me breakfast in bed (pancakes, an orange, and cup of milk), he let me have a nap, and made lasagna and french bread for dinner.  The boys have been giving hugs (especially Dallen and Ashton) and Alec made me some no-bake cookies, and Ashton made some brownies.  Calvin helped Scott clean up (he is always good at noticing that stuff).  They have been trying their hardest not to fight and have done pretty good.  I am grateful to be a mom.  I never really set out to get married and have kids.  I actually was on the fast track to work in retail as a Fashion Merchandiser or something in that area.  Then, we felt we needed to start our family soon after we got married and along came Derrek.  I know the Lord knew what would be best for me.  I would grow and learn and become a better person through my trials and joys of being a mother.  They have all taught me more about myself and how to better myself in ways that would have never happened had I not had them...all of them.  

Derrek and I when he was about 1 year old.

 I am thankful for my mom.  I was thinking of all the things she did for us growing up.  She was and still is always behind the scenes, working.  She plans the fun and my dad heads the fun, but it is my mom that does all the behind the scenes stuff.  She taught us how to be independent (or maybe I was just born more that way), but I do remember thinking how lucky my sister-in-laws were for getting husbands that knew how to cook, iron shirts, clean, wash and fold laundry, etc.  

My mom taking us to a ball game here in Phoenix...her favorite pass-time.  She loves to watch a baseball game while ironing.  I never understood that!  She liked to iron, too!  I love you, mom!

Then that leads us to Scott's mom.  We miss her a lot, especially on Mother's Day.  She is forever in our hearts, though.  She taught us how to truly love others no matter what they act like.  If there is anyone that ever showed Christ-like love, it was her.  I don't remember her ever saying anything bad about anyone.  I know she would get frustrated with people, but was quick to forgive and move past anything that caused frustration.  I see a lot of her in her kids and her grandchildren.  She was a hard worker, and SO willing to help in any way that she could.  She could never sit still!  She truly loved her kids and grandkids.  They were her everything and she showed that.  She was full of hugs and reading books to them and playing games.  We truly miss her.

Dallen and Grandma at Disneyland...best week ever!

Where did April go?!?

Catching up...again, I was able to go to BYU Women's Conference about a week and a half ago.  I really love going to Women's Conference.  I call it the EFY for women.  I always learn things about myself, life and others that I didn't know before.  This year I went with Laurel ( a friend of ours, but mostly a friend of Kathie's), Heidi, Wendy, Amy (1), and Rachel.  

Kathie was supposed to come, but at the last minute got the flu really bad.  She was really missed.  I am glad, though, that Laurel came with us still.  She is really fun to be around.  Things I learned this year...

• I can be an influence to my family and others when I am armed with God's power (living up to my spiritual potential)...arming myself with prayer, scripture reading, serving others, and that my children want a strong mother (no pressure :).
• How to fortify our homes against Satan and that we need to be willing to receive the revelation of where our homes are weak and be willing to strengthen those areas so that we will be strengthened against the battle outside the home.
• How to be a better "leader" (I have always wanted to know the secrets of those who speak in Conference and don't blubber and cry when they get up there...I just can't do that and I'm in awe that they can!)
• A Righteous Woman is a powerful influence for good (one of my favorite classes!), talked about KEEPING OUR COVENANTS + TRUSTING THE LORD = SOMETHING EXTRAORDINARY.  Beautiful! We also all have "orbits" which our light touches.  We learn from others in our life as they learn from us...what is being learned?!?
• The principles of God never change, and it is something that we can always hold on to. (one of those "good reminders").
• I learned that I am doing ok with the rules I have set up for "hanging out" and "dating" in our home.  I did learn, though, to teach my boys to date now (encourage them to ask girls out), because if they decide to go on a mission, when they get back, the girls will be a couple years ahead of them in this area and they won't be able to compete.  It will be awkward for them.  
• I learned that we are on the right track with helping our boys deal with the stresses of life.  This year has been really stressful and I just wanted to make sure we weren't damaging our children :).  One point I loved was in turning to the Lord...he has made promises and never breaks his promise.  He has given us the promise of peace and has told us how to get it.  Peace breaks any stress!  Good class!
• Elder Anderson came and spoke to us.  We are in a battle that will only be getting worse.  The battle between the doctrine of Christ and the world.  He gave us instruction on how to combat this and that we "need not fear".  

I was able to meet up with one of my good friends from growing up in Oklahoma.  We usually try to get together as a group, but this year the others weren't able to come, so it was just me and Amy (Bingham) Jensen.  People wonder why I get so excited about Girl's Camp and I realized that this is why.  I have a group of friends that for four years or so, I was able to bond with for a week, doing really hard things (Sister Drummond was not easy on us!).  But, after all these years (20+), we are able to still connect and share a bond that is forever.  I love seeing these women every year.  It is a piece of home for me.  I love them all dearly. 

We also did the service station for a little while and the sharing stations.  You can get on the Women's Conference website and see all the different sharing stations.  Great ideas for everything.  We went to a concert put on by Deseret Book.  This year it was a little more serious, but for me, very touching.  I really am amazed by Relief Society.  At the concert, a woman depicted Eliza R. Snow (2nd General Relief Society President), and showed how there were 20 women at the time it started and how there were now 6,000,000!  There were 15,000 at Women's Conference, so the thought of 6 million was just unimaginable to me.  Just the thought of all the good that those 6 million women are trying to do.  I know it isn't just our church, either, that is trying to do good, but 6 million of LDS women around the world are.  It's incredible.

So, that was Women's Conference.  On the way home, I got to see Derrek.  He was nice enough to come sit and visit with me, Rachel, and Laurel while we ate lunch (he had already eaten).  Do you like the beard he's sportin'?!?  He didn't have it all twisted like this...this is the picture he sent to me this week.  I didn't know he could grow a beard.  I still think of him as a little kid!  I really need to move on!  He's a young MAN.  Anyway, it was good to see him.  

He is doing well.  I think he has decided to stay in St. George for a few more months and then a couple months before he leaves on his mission, he will come live with us.  It's hard to know what to do.  He knows he wants to go on a mission, so, we'll just go in that direction :).  We are excited for him and proud of him.  He is amazing.

Scott receiving Honors from Dr. Taggart (his professor)

Scott is graduating this week.  Last week they had a program ceremony for those graduating with Honors and receiving scholarships and such.  Scott was one of four in his class who is graduating with Honors!!!  The lowest grade he has received this semester is a 98%!  He has just done amazing and I tell him all the time.  After this week, he will no longer be able to work downstairs with the bodies because he is not a student.  He has to get his "intern license" in order to do anything.  So, hopefully he will be able to take the boards this month ($400!), and then he will intern as an embalmer for a year, but able to do other things now that he wasn't able to do before, such as arranging funerals and working with the families.  That's the part he loves the most.  I'm so happy he has found something he loves and is happy to go to work and so happy all around.    

Our allowance thing is still going good.  It drives Scott a little nuts, though because a couple of kids have chosen not to do their chores and he gets mad that they feel they don't have to contribute, but that's part of the process.  I think they were just testing us this week, which for me is just fine.  It really isn't much different than before we started all this, just there are consequences now attached to it and at the end of the week, it makes a difference.  I think it is going good.